Campaign for Real Tips

A tip is a thank you,
not a tax.

CaRT is a small campaign for restaurant tips that are actually discretionary — chosen at the table, not printed on the bill.

Why this exists

A note from the person who started this

One of the most aggravating things about eating in a restaurant these days is the "discretionary" tip. Typically, after a pleasant and convivial meal shared with friends or family, you're presented with a bill that automatically adds a tip to the total. Usually 10%, often 12.5%, and increasingly 15% or even more.

You, the bill payer, must then decide: do I grin and bear it and pay up, do I request a downward adjustment, or do I refuse outright?

Unless I suck it up, I become instantly the bad guy.

If I demur, it's obvious to my guests and a black cloud descends over the happy gathering. My partner is embarrassed. I am mean. Emotional blackmail.

I grew up in the UK, and this wasn't a thing until about 2010. Sure, I could decide — from generosity, in reflection of a job well done — to add a tip. Usually 3–5%, done cash into the hand of my waiter.

The campaign

Discretionary should mean discretionary

A tip that's calculated automatically and printed on the bill before you've said a word isn't really a tip. CaRT exists to put the decision back where it belongs — with the person paying, after the meal, based on how it actually went.

Discretionary means optional.

We're not asking anyone to stop tipping. The old UK norm — 3 to 5%, cash, genuinely chosen — is roughly what we're aiming to bring back. It's not a verdict on the person who served you. It's a stance on a system that quietly stopped asking.

How it works

One card, handed over at the right moment

  1. 1Have the meal. Judge the service the way you always would.
  2. 2When you ask for the bill — before it's rung up — hand this over.
  3. 3The front says thank you, and states a %, written in by hand at the table.
  4. 4The back explains it's not personal, and asks whoever's curious to pass it on.
5%

Front

Back

Card back: an explanation, and a link to cart.tips.